Schedule, Schedule, For Twins

Schedule, Schedule, For Twins

I’ve never been fond of kid’s schedule until I got Rose and Ella. That is because having twins means double the work. Therefore, scheduling various things is crucial – unless you want to go “crazy.”

Getting your infants to a schedule is the key to remaining sane throughout their early life. Of course, with time this changes as they grow into their distinctive characters. Here are some of the things that helped me with Ella and Rose:

  1. Work As A Team

Trust me, this really helped us. Well, at first it was quite difficult for me. I thought that I’d experience the same thing as I had with Ava. So, I tried to manage to do everything on my own till I realized I couldn’t do it alone anymore. So, we had a lengthy talk with Daniel and came up with a routine for changing and rocking the twins to sleep.

To be honest, during the first week, Daniel was quite “terrible” in how he handled the twins. I had my own “way” of how I would love to get things done and he had his own. I didn’t feel comfortable with that but I had to adjust. Trust me, it turned out to quite okay in the end.

  1. Write It Down

Many new twin parents get surprised when I make this suggestion to them. So, how does this help? When Rose and Ella were young, I found out that they had different times where they wanted to be fed, poop and sleep.

That helped me know their feeding time, the amount of food each ate, the time they poop and amount and their sleep duration. Remarkably, the results were almost the same. Together with Daniel, we created a schedule with the notes.

  1. You Have to Act

Whoever said, “Let your babies sleep till they wake up on their own,” clearly was taking to the singleton parents. Having twins is double the effort. You have to have them scheduled. I know you will find this difficult to put into practice but according to Dr. Flais, “After you feed one of the twins, the other one is likely to wake up an hour later.” I’m sure you don’t want an ugly circle, having to compete with taking care of the twins with no sleep.

  1. Sleeping and Eating Arrangements

Sleeping and eating arrangements are one of the toughest challenges for new parents. You have to use your unique “props” to get them to do these things especially eating. When it comes to sleeping, it’s quite the same. In their early months, you will have to “create” a schedule for them. Trust me, you’d want them both asleep at the same time. Nonetheless, with time, be prepared to buy another crib.

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8 Comments
  1. Divya says

    Having a kid is hard enough! I can’t even imagine having two at once! I like these ideas of scheduling and preparing to juggle everything! The more preparation, the better!

  2. Brandy says

    I cannot imagine raising twins. My sons are 2 years 6 days apart and since the first born son is high functioning autistic (which I didn’t find out for 8 years) he was delayed in some areas such as potty training. So I had two in diapers for a bit and that was rough in of itself. I love these tips for parents of twins, they were what I did even having two kids so close in age.

  3. Mardene Carr says

    I cannot imagine having multiples. I think one baby is hard enough so I am not even going to think about this.

  4. Mary says

    I’ve never thought about what it must be like with twins before. I automatically assumed both would be hungry at the same time, sleepy at the same time, etc. It definitely sounds like tag teaming them is necessary. Two kids….two parents.

  5. Elena says

    My cousin has twins and she always says that she hadn`t had one good night sleep. Her twins are waking up at different times.

  6. CourtneyLynne says

    When I was young I thought it would be so fun to have twins!!! Now that I’m a mom, omg!!!! That’s drugs ton of work!

  7. Crystal says

    A schedule is so important for kids. It helps the day be predictable and safe. But a schedule for parents makes it manageable.

  8. katrina gehman says

    my kids are 9 years apart and i need a schedule. i couldn’t imagine twins.

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