Usher Opens Up About Custody Battle With Tameka Foster

Usher who was recently awarded  primary custody of his two children Usher V and Naviyd after a three year battle with ex Tameka Foster has opened up about the experience for the first time.

“This will be the only time that I’ve ever chosen to speak about it. I’ve been a man of integrity throughout the entire process, which I hope my boys will understand,” Usher told to Oprah on the September 16 episode of Oprah’s Next Chapter. “That’s the way to go. That’s the way to be.”

The former couple had originally planned to tie the knot in July 2007, when Foster, a celebrity stylist , was five months pregnant. The wedding was called off when Usher’s mother refused to attend the ceremony, but the singer and Foster swapped vows one week later in a private ceremony.

“I wanted to give her the wedding that she wanted. But I wasn’t quite ready,” Usher admitted. “I impregnated this woman, we were in a relationship, we were in love. . . I was taking responsibility.”

It wasn’t until 2008, before Naviyd was born, that Usher realized the marriage was doomed.

“When we had Usher V, it was by far the most incredible moment of my life. I couldn’t have been more happy,” said the singer. “After that, I did get a great sense of the insecurities that were there and the fact that she wasn’t coping well with being in this position, being married to Usher, and all that came with that.”

“Let’s put aside all of the issues that come with being a celebrity and having married someone that people don’t approve of,” he continued. “You have at-home problems with communication, with understanding of how things go. It is hard being married.”

“I didn’t know how to balance it. It was obviously too much for me,” he added. “I didn’t want to get to the point where I would cause myself harm or do anything that I felt like would be harmful to me, so I couldn’t stay in it.”