Lisa Schaper says:

You took this out of context. He said the most important thing to him is his family so he has to really think something is worthwhile if it would be worth it to take time away from his family. When he is in the middle of FILMING is when Jen takes over and does everything because he is always thinking constantly of the next day shooting, etc. , although he tries to be physically present with the kids, such s giving them a bath etc. You should read and reproduce the entire Details article before you go take bits and pieces from it (taking it out of context) which gives it an entire different (and false) tone.